But today was the most...."eventful" of all my days, BUT we won't get into that..instead this post is for 2 of my closest friends..and my self-proclaimed boyfriend (so He says =P)
One thing we can all agree on is that everyone wants love. (I dare you to come up to my face and answer truthfully you don't, and that you're happy alone otherwise). Why? Love is the closest thing we have to Magic. Love gives meaning to everyone and it's probably one of the most powerful and influential emotions around. Songs, movies, letters, poems, all of it. Love gives meaning to everything.
I've been told that if I were a God, I'd be Aphrodite. Now I don't agree on the basis of Aphrodite being drop-dead gorgeous and having the ability to make anyone and everyone fall in love with her, but I agree in the sense that I love love. The idea, the embodiment, the emotions the gestures, all of it. I've also been told that when I speak about love the listener can't help but see things my way and almost get pulled into believing in it as much as I do with the way I speak; but then again...it's what they tell me.
Whether that's true or not its true in the way I speak. Love is a strong and powerful emotion and everyone deserves, feels and has someone feel it for them. Love is pure and special and I get butterflies and admire couples who are so in love. Love takes courage, passion, honesty, integrity, and a whole bunch of other values and emotions all packed into one feeling. It's not easy, nothing "Good" ever is, but trust me when I say it's worth it.
Love may be cruel.Truth is, with love comes consequences. Many people judge you when you're in love. Not only based on your identity but on your partners as well. You are now "linked" to that person emotionally and intellectually and so people no longer see you as an individual, but as part of another person. Now this may not be bad but it tends to lead to negative attitudes.The worst is when they judge you on your appearance. For example: A girl who may be a it overweight may be thought not to be able to find love. A fair-skinned guy and a dark-skinned girl may be seen as "weird" when you see them together. The worst is the homosexual couples. They are judged while simultaneously gaining a bad reputation. That is something I strongly speak against.
When you fall in love, you do not fall for what's in your partners pants (Oo) you fall for that person. Their personality, their character, their smile, everything...It's hard enough finding the courage to speak to them about your feelings for fear of rejection but then the immediate stereotype that comes with it is just wrong. We should not condemn love. God does not, so why should we?Two people are in love, they are happy together, they want to be together, who the hell are you to say otherwise|? You have no right to judge, yet you do it anyway.
This post is too long...Enter: Abrupt Ending...
I'll post more sense later.....
Kay Byyyyyeeee =D
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